Is Ezra Miller Gay? Truth about the Actor’s Sexuality and Dating Life

Truth about Ezra Miller’s Gay Rumors, Wife, Girlfriend, and Dating Life

Here is an in-depth look at Ezra Miller’s personal life!

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Is Ezra Miller Gay? Truth about the Actor’s Sexuality and Dating Life

Ezra Miller is a well-known American actor who has gained the limelight for their performances in The Perks of Being a Wallflower, The Stanford Prison Experiment, and Fantastic Beasts: The Crimes of Grindelwald.

In addition, they have been portraying the role of Barry Allen, aka The Flash, in the mainstream movies and TV shows of DC Extended Universe (DCEU), such as Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice, Justice League, Zack Snyder‘s Justice League, and Peacemaker.

While their professional lives are widely known among their fans, their personal lives have been kept low-key and are rather confusing to some. Here is everything to know about Miller’s personal life!

Is Ezra Miller gay?

Miller’s passionate fans might know that the actor came out as “Queer” — not gay — in 2012. They did so during their interview with Out Magazine.

While talking about the themes of the 2012 movie, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, and how they related to their own experience growing up, Miller simply said, “I’m queer. I have a lot of really wonderful friends who are of very different sexes and genders.”

“I am very much in love with no one in particular. I’ve been trying to figure out relationships, you know? I don’t know if it’s responsible for kids of my age to be so aggressively pursuing monogamous binds, because I don’t think we’re ready for them.”

In the end, they said, “I’m just trying to make sure my lack of responsibility no longer hurts people. That’s where I’m at in the boyfriend/girlfriend/zefriend type of question.”

In the next year, Miller did an interview with The Advocate in which they were asked why they identified as “queer” when other celebrities identified themselves as “gay” when they came out.

The question further read, “Do you feel it’s generational?” In reply, they said, “It’s generational in the way that that term is newly available in a certain way. I think it feels the most open and inclusive and that’s what makes it apply for me, personally.”

As Miller went on, they stated that they think many people fall on this open spectrum of sexuality. “My friends and I use that word as an all-encompassing banner and for every human being.”

“There should be an ongoing question and investigation of who you love and everything that’s involved with that very tricky and beautiful thing,” Miller concluded.

Years down the line, in a July 2017 interview with The Daily Beast, the actor further clarified that they wouldn’t label themselves as gay. “The way I would choose to identify myself wouldn’t be gay. I’ve been attracted mostly to ‘shes,’ but I’ve been with many people and I’m open to love wherever it can be found.”

“I think a lot of people are projecting their own troubles and fears concerning sexuality onto those around them, and it does result in the perpetuation of a lot of hateful notions.”

Over a year later, Miller was interviewed by The Hollywood Reporter in November 2018. The outlet mentioned that the actor had identified themselves as queer for a long time. Right after that, Miller said:

“Yeah, absolutely. Which is to say, I don’t identify. Like, [expletive] that. Queer just means no, I don’t do that. I don’t identify as a man. I don’t identify as a woman. I barely identify as a human.”

Ezra Miller identifies themselves as queer, not gay

Ezra Miller identifies themselves as queer, not gay (Photo: Instagram)

At the same time, they told GQ Style that their “gender identity is fluid,” and they are comfortable with all the pronouns. “I let he/his/him ride, and that’s fine.”

However, that changed less than two years later. During Miller’s March 2020 interview with GQ Britain, the outlet mentioned that the actor presently uses the “they/them pronouns in a pointed refusal to be gendered or identified in any category.”

Furthermore, in a since-deleted Instagram post of December 2021, they once again mentioned they no longer use other pronouns and prefer to use “they/them, it, or ze” pronouns.

Ezra Miller was in a polyamorous group of lovers

Miller’s present relationship status is unknown. They have kept details about his romantic life upto themselves only. Due to that, it’s unknown whether they currently have a boyfriend or a girlfriend in their life.

Not just that, it is unknown if they were ever married to a wife or a partner. But since they have not revealed those details, one is left to believe that they haven’t had a wife so far.

Ezra Miller at their styling room

Ezra Miller at their styling room (Photo: Instagram)

However, in their November 2018 interview with Playboy Magazine, they had mentioned that they were a “sexual being,” and were in a polyamorous group of lovers whom they called his “polyamorous molecule” or “polycule” in short.

Additionally, Miller stated that their polyamorous group consists of members of their ‘genrequeer’ band named Sons of an Illustrious Father and other people “who fit in with the rest of the polycule’s vibe.”

The actor also explained that they found fulfillment in the polycule group. They said, “I’m trying to find queer beings who understand me as a queer being off the bat, who I make almost a familial connection with, and I feel like I’m married to them 25 lifetimes ago from the moment we meet.”

“And then they are in the squad — the polycule. And I know they’re going to love everyone else in the polycule because we’re in the polycule, and we love each other so much,” Miller added.

Ezra Miller during their photoshoot for Burberry

Ezra Miller during their photoshoot for Burberry (Photo: Instagram)

It’s presently unknown what happened to Miller’s polyamorous group of lovers.

Ezra Miller had a friend who was also his sexual partner

In the interview mentioned earlier with Playboy Magazine, Miller opened up about their relationship with sex, per PinkNews.

They mentioned that they had their first sex dream when they were just four-year-old. Recalling the dream, they said that it had a witch who had trapped them on a waterspout that they depicted as being “tantalizing and delightful.”

Miller then talked about some of their formative experiences with sex. They revealed that he had a “friend and also sexual partner” during elementary school — which runs until the age of 12 in the United States.

One day, Miller and their friend came across a collection of lingerie, Playboy Magazines, and The Kama Sutra that belonged to Miller’s friend’s divorced mother. Talking about The Kama Sutra, the actor said it was “very influential.”

Right after that, they added, “We would jerk each other off while we interacted with that stuff in various ways, actually.”

Just like the whereabouts of Miller’s polyamorous group of lovers, it’s unknown if the actor still has contact with that friend.

Ezra Miller has dated several women

Before – and after – Miller revealed his sexuality, the actor has been involved in several romantic relationships with women. Besides, he was even engaged with one of his former girlfriends.

One of Miller’s first known relationships with women was with Esther Wald. Their relationship started in 2006 and ended in the same year due to unknown reasons. At the time, the actor was 13 years of age, and Wald was 16.

Following that, Miller began dating actress Zoë Kravitz in 2010. The now-former couple first met each other on the sets of their 2010 movie Beware the Gonzo and were seen having PDA-filled moments multiple times.

Ezra Miller with their ex-girlfriend Zoë Kravitz

Ezra Miller with their ex-girlfriend Zoë Kravitz (Photo: Twitter)

However, their togetherness didn’t last for long, as they split four months later. Although separated, they maintained a friendly bond and even shared the screen in 2018’s Fantastic Beasts: The Crimes of Grindelwald.

After their split with Kravitz, Miller moved on with an American photographer named Lauren Nolting. They reportedly began dating in 2011 and parted ways seven months later in 2012.

In the next year, in 2013, Miller started dating a model named Erin Urb. The initiation of their togetherness remains unknown, but it’s not hidden from anyone that they got engaged in May 2014. However, despite the engagement, they broke up in February 2016.

After that, in 2016, Miller was said to be in a relationship with American actress Shailene Woodley. However, these rumors were never confirmed by any of the two stars. There haven’t been many revelations about Miller’s love life following that.

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