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Nessa Barrett Addresses Her BPD on Charlotte D’Alessio’s Podcast
‘I used to get like them daily,’ Nessa said.
Nessa Barrett is opening up once again, this time about her Borderline Personality Disorder, aka BPD.
On May 2, 2023, the renowned TikTok star made her appearance on Charlotte D’Alessio’s podcast Between Good & Evil By: Charlotte D’Alessio. During her appearance, Barrett talked about multiple things, such as taking a break from social media, current beliefs, and more.
The two ladies went on conversing about different topics, and at one point, Barrett started talking about her mental health struggles and having episodes. After that, D’Alessio asked, “When you say episodes, what do you mean specifically? Were there things that triggered it?”
The ‘American Jesus’ singer said she has Borderline Personality Disorder and struggled badly with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), anxiety, and eating disorder. “And they all just kind of mushed into one,” she added.
Barrett continued, “When either one of those gets triggered, then it kind of becomes an explosion. Internally and then get so bad that I start to just be very self-destructive and almost ruin my life at that moment, and I freak out.”
She also mentioned that when she gets into one of these episodes, she cannot process that there is any other feeling or emotion other than what she is feeling. “It’s just so like deep and like intense,” she added.
“But, like, I couldn’t even tell you the last time I’ve gotten an episode which is insane. I used to get like them daily. I would be lucky if I went a day without them sometimes, I would have multiple in a day because I was already so sensitive,” she concluded.
D’Alessio then continued the conversation by asking Barrett another question about her BPD, which was how long Barrett knew she had BPD. Barrett answered that she had been in therapy since she was six, with her adding doctors cannot diagnose BPD and other disorders until a person is 18.
Nessa Barrett taking a mirror selfie (Photo: Instagram)
Barrett also stated that she was misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder when she was 17. “I feel like everyone starts getting misdiagnosed or something first,” the podcast host told her guest, to which the latter agreed.
Barrett added, “It’s common because I think that a lot of the people that are making the diagnosis are just picking the one that’s easy. They don’t really do like they don’t dig enough to do the research and you know actually find like deeper things that would make more sense.”
The singer also stated that when she started researching, she realized she was misdiagnosed, and it was a challenging moment in her life because she had started questioning if she was crazy.
“I was like, am I crazy if like, hey you know the only thing that they say that I could have is this, but I don’t feel like that, you know, I don’t have those symptoms. I was like different, and it was really weird but I got a lot of clarity when I got re-diagnosed again.”
She told the podcast host she went to a different person for her re-diagnosis and got a “whole psych of owl.” And after going through that process again, she learned she was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, not bipolar disorder.
Additionally, she said that the re-diagnosis made sense. After the results came in, Barrett mentioned she shared everything with her mother, and her mom “was like I knew you had it the whole time.”
Before D’Alessio and Barrett moved on to the next topic of discussion, Barrett mentioned that she believes she doesn’t have BPD anymore. She said that she thinks she has certain traits but doesn’t deal with them daily, which is the best thing that has happened to her.
Nessa Barrett dressed in white at the location for her ‘Die First’ music video (Photo: Instagram)
This is probably the first time in a long time that Barrett has opened up about the things she is or has been affected by in her life. She recently talked about being sober and feeling beyond grateful and connected to life.
She has also raised awareness about BPD and talked about her mental health struggles on previous occasions. For instance, on May 6, 2021, she shared a picture and a brief caption related to BPD during the BPD awareness month.
In her caption, she added the phone numbers for the mental health helpline and national suicide prevention lifeline. “Keep fighting with me,” she concluded, along with two white heart emojis.
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Robert De Niro and Tiffany Chen Shine at the 2024 Tribeca Film Festival
Robert De Niro and Tiffany Chen made a captivating appearance at the 2024 Tribeca Film Festival, capturing the spotlight as they walked the red carpet at the Chanel Tribeca Festival’s Artist Dinner. Held at The Odeon in New York City on Monday, June 10, the event saw the couple in high spirits, holding hands and smiling for the cameras.
The Chanel Tribeca Festival’s Artist Dinner attracted a host of other A-list guests, including Blake Lively, Jessica Capshaw, Chloe Fineman, Mark Ronson, Grace Gummer, David Harbour, and Lily Allen.
As co-founder of the Tribeca Festival, De Niro’s presence was a highlight, especially as the festival gears up for a special convention celebrating his illustrious career.
De Niro Con: Celebrating an Icon’s Career
The 2024 Tribeca Film Festival is not only about showcasing new cinematic talents but also honoring its co-founder, Robert De Niro. The festival, which runs through June 16, will host a special convention titled De Niro Con during its final three days.
This unique event will feature screenings of some of De Niro’s most acclaimed films, including A Bronx Tale, Jackie Brown, The Godfather: Part II, Silver Linings Playbook, Mean Streets, and Analyze This. Additionally, fans can look forward to De Niro-themed activations, celebrating the actor’s extensive and varied career.
Robert De Niro and Tiffany Chen’s Relationship Timeline
Robert De Niro and Tiffany Chen’s love story began in 2015 when they first met. However, it wasn’t until August 2021 that they were publicly recognized as a couple, following a romantic getaway in the south of France. The pair’s relationship has since blossomed, and they welcomed their daughter, Gia Virginia Chen De Niro, on April 6, 2023. Gia, now 14 months old, is De Niro’s seventh child.
Their relationship has seen them through both private moments and public appearances, with De Niro often expressing his joy about being a father again at his age.
In a recent interview on the Today show, De Niro shared his feelings about parenting a young child once more. “I always say it’s pure joy. That’s it,” he stated, reflecting on the experience of raising Gia. Despite acknowledging that his older children might be more critical, De Niro emphasized the unfiltered joy that comes with parenting a baby.
De Niro’s Expanding Family
Robert De Niro’s family has always been a significant part of his life. Alongside Gia, he has six older children from previous relationships. With his first wife, Diahnne Abbott, he has daughter Drena, 52, and son Raphael, 47.
In 1995, he welcomed twin sons Julian and Aaron, 28, with former girlfriend Toukie Smith. De Niro also shares son Elliot, 26, and daughter Helen Grace, 12, with ex-wife Grace Hightower.
The 80-year-old actor has candidly spoken about the differences in parenting across generations. While he treasures the pure joy of raising his youngest daughter, he acknowledges that his older children may offer more critical perspectives on his parenting style. Nonetheless, De Niro continues to embrace fatherhood with enthusiasm and love.
As the Tribeca Film Festival continues, Robert De Niro’s legacy both as a film industry titan and a dedicated father remains firmly in the spotlight, celebrated by fans and peers alike.
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Emmy-Nominated Hair Department Head Rukey Styles’ Work Is Often Influenced By Her Own Experiences
“I started doing my own hair and realized I may have a desire to make people beautiful,” Rukey Styles says.
In the realm of television and film, where visual storytelling is paramount, the art of hairstyling plays a crucial role in bringing characters to life. Among the celebrated artists in this field is Rukey Styles, an Emmy-nominated Hair Department Head renowned for her innovative and culturally rich contributions.
Rukey’s illustrious career spans an impressive array of projects, from the high-stakes world of Divergent to the gritty realism of Chicago Med, each showcasing her exceptional talent and unique perspective on beauty.
Her most recent work on Disney‘s Saturdays – aired from March 24 to May 12, 2023 – has garnered significant attention, not just for its vibrant portrayal of Afro-American culture but also for its heartfelt depiction of a youth-driven, diverse narrative.
As Rukey continues to shape the landscape of hairstyling in film and television, we had the opportunity to delve into her journey and creative process in an exclusive interview. She shared insights into her early life, revealing how her upbringing influenced her perspective on beauty and hairstyling.
She recounted pivotal moments and influences that led her to the entertainment industry, and detailed her approach to incorporating Afro-American culture into the vibrant, youth-driven world of Disney’s Saturdays. Additionally, she discussed the significance of her Emmy nomination for Outstanding Makeup and Hairstyling and her aspirations for the future.
1. Can you share a bit about your early life and how your upbringing or experiences shaped your perspective on beauty and hairstyling?
Rukey: I grew up in a single-family middle-class home. Because my mother knew that her strength was in teaching children to read and not doing children’s hair, she sent me to the salon regularly. I didn’t appreciate beauty and the efforts that went into it until I saw myself and how I wanted to be seen. After somewhat growing up in my hairstylist’s chair, I started doing my own hair and realized I may have a desire to make people beautiful. Me being around my sister’s boyfriend, who was a hairstylist, created more interest in hair artistry for me.
2. Many individuals find unique paths into the entertainment industry. What were some pivotal moments or influences that led you to pursue a career in hairstyling for film and television?
Rukey: Before starting in the film and TV industry, I had a business where I performed non-surgical hair restoration services. Doing this allowed me to really focus on the little details that people who are not feeling like themself because of their hair loss would pay attention to. This detailing is what influenced them looking natural or like their pre hairloss self. It is because of my wig experience knowledge that led to the opportunity to work in theater, then TV, then FILM.
Work on Disney’s Saturdays:
3. “Saturdays” is garnering attention for its unique portrayal of a diverse cast and its celebration of Afro-American style. How did you approach incorporating Afro-American culture into the hair designs for the characters in the show?
Rukey: Well, this wasn’t hard to do. I was once these characters – young African American adolescent from the southside of Chicago. I saw my childhood in them, I used to go to the skating rink on Saturdays. My mother was a real skater. Like Paris, this was also my experience. It was just a matter of breaking down the characters to see who wears what style. I wanted each girl to have her own look that was unique to her character’s personality, including certain embellishments.
4. The series follows a trio of friends creating an all-girls skate crew. How did you collaborate with the creative team to ensure that the characters’ hairstyles reflected both their individuality and the vibrant, youth-driven theme of the show?
Rukey: Everything starts with the words on the script. After taking notes from the script, I consult with the creators to make sure I see the characters as they wrote them. Then I talk to the actors to collaborate based on the character’s core styling, what my bosses want and learn the actor’s comfort level with the direction, throwing suggestions back and forth sometimes making changes and also creating alongside makeup and wardrobe.
Inspirations Behind Hair Looks:
5. In “Saturdays,” the characters’ hairstyles seem to carry a sense of nostalgia. Can you share some specific inspirations or references that influenced the hair designs, and how you balanced nostalgia with a modern, youth-oriented approach?
Rukey: You learn that there isn’t much new under the sun. Innovation in hairstyling can be combining existing, familiar, elements in new ways to create a new look.
There may be slight iterations that can make it an ode to the former style. Being innovative may mean combing 2 or more familiar components to create a new look overall.
We took the opportunity to style the 3 besties, incorporating throwback elements, such as the 1990s music video style, into the performance scenes, like the cypher scene that was reminiscent of a 1990’s music video in style of filming cinematically, wardrobe, makeup and hair. There was also an opportunity to do “Paris,” played by Danielle Jalade, in a TBoz inspired natural short style with braided sideburns and, “Ari,” played by Peyton Z Basnight, having 2 large ponytails and these and others were opportunities to pay homage to iconic styles of the past.
Emmy Nomination and Award Submissions:
6. Congratulations on your Emmy nomination for Outstanding Makeup and Hairstyling! What does this recognition mean to you, especially considering the impact of your work on “Saturdays” and other projects?
Rukey: Thank you, Arun. We learned about our nomination for the Children and Family Emmys, shortly after I wrapped “Saturdays”. It was great to feel seen as an artist. I remember explaining why I chose certain hair directions such as the father Trey, played by Bryan Clark. His hair changed over the years from a texturizer to natural locs because of the influence of his naturalista wife. I mean how many couples have we seen who were together for years start looking alike?
7. You’ve recently submitted your work on “Saturdays” for the MUAH awards. What aspects of the show’s makeup and hairstyling do you believe stand out and contribute to its potential success in this category?
Rukey: Our hair department did some crazy, fun stuff on “Saturdays”. I hope that our work and approach is noticed as being creative, informative, realistic and appropriately over the top when needed.
8. Looking ahead, what are your aspirations and goals in the realm of hairstyling for film and television? Are there specific projects or themes you hope to explore in the future?
Rukey: I have been blessed to work on projects that encompass a wide range of hairstyling needs, including period, glam, fantasy, character, contemporary, aging, special effects, and ethnic hairstyling. Any story can require a combination of these styles. I want to work on a project that will give space for styling that is authentic to the storyline and character growth, allowing my team. to bring out the essence of the narrative through hairstyling.
When all things are in alignment, including a great story and a dedicated team of cohesive collaborators, with me as the department head of hair, we can collectively bring out the best in my work and creativity. This effort will ultimately lead to the recognition of our hairstyling skills.
9. Finally, for emerging hairstylists inspired by your journey, do you have any advice or insights you’d like to share about breaking into the industry and thriving in a competitive field?
Rukey: Be well rounded because there’s no productions where all the actors wear the same hairstyle (If so, it’s a comedy) lol. Learn as much as you can about all hair types and textures.
Work in a salon, mess up some stuff so you can learn how to fix it. It’s about knowing what you do so well that you can do it promptly with ease but also can get the same result multiple ways if needed.
The interview was originally held in December 2023.
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Ariana Grande and Social House’s ‘Boyfriend’ Reaches Streaming Milestone on Spotify
It is Grande’s 21st song to reach such a staggering number.
Pop sensation Ariana Grande and rising duo Social House have hit a major milestone with their hit single ‘Boyfriend,’ which has surpassed 800 million streams on Spotify. This achievement marks a significant moment in the careers of both artists.
For Grande, it’s her 21st song to reach such a staggering number, while for Social House, it’s their first time breaking into this exclusive club.
Released in 2019, ‘Boyfriend’ quickly became a fan favorite, blending Grande’s signature powerhouse vocals with Social House’s smooth, laid-back style. The track’s catchy chorus and relatable lyrics about the complexities of modern relationships resonated with listeners worldwide, securing its place on countless playlists.
Grande, known for her impressive vocal range and a string of chart-topping hits, continues to dominate the music scene. With ‘Boyfriend’ joining her list of songs with over 800 million streams, she reaffirms her status as one of the most streamed artists on the platform. Hits like ‘Thank U, Next,’ ‘7 Rings,’ and ‘Side to Side’ already boast massive streaming numbers, and ‘Boyfriend’ solidifies her consistent popularity.
For Social House, comprised of Michael “Mikey” Foster and Charles “Scootie” Anderson, this milestone is a significant breakthrough. The duo, who have collaborated with Grande on several occasions, are quickly becoming names to watch in the music industry.
Their chemistry with Grande has not only brought them into the spotlight but has also showcased their talent to a broader audience.
The success of ‘Boyfriend’ highlights the power of collaboration and the universal appeal of pop music. As it continues to rack up streams, fans can look forward to more exciting projects from both Ariana Grande and Social House.
With this achievement, ‘Boyfriend’ cements its place in pop history, marking another high note in Grande’s illustrious career and a promising milestone for Social House.
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